I couldn't find a video for this scene but I really wanted to share it. This is from Fools Rush In. I actually just saw this movie for the first time tonight, I don't know why I've never watched it before. This scene between Isabel and her great grandmother very much spoke to me:
"-Nanita it was the right thing to do.
-It is not your faith that has betrayed you. It is your fear.
-I got lost... That's all. But now I make my own decisions.
-How selfish you are. To presume you know better than love.
-Nanita. He never would have left if he knew I was still pregnant. He wanted to go. I let him off the hook.
-No. You let yourself off the hook. You denied your heart and lied to the man you love. Why?
-...Because I had to. If I didn't leave him, he would have left me. I really don't think I could have handled that.
-Isa, You will never know love unless you surrender to it."